
We have so many of them. And sometimes they can feel like it's all just a big round of days doing regular blah things. Not blog material. There are only so many hours in a day and I only get to do crafty knitting or sewing when everyone else is asleep (and chores done, or attempted). So ordinary days are my norm. But, taking photos changes my interpretation of the day, highlights and diminishes, embellishes.... some things look more interesting then you thought at the time - or perhaps I ought to say that maybe some days you just don't notice how good your days really are until you step out and view them through a lens.

Outside Spring is in the air. I am SURE. I am willing it to be so. I am SICK of Winter. The beauty in the line of bare trees still thrill me a tiny bit but my longing for a smidgen of warmth and a glimpse of the sun (just an hour would do!) is overwhelming. So Spring is almost here. We are on the VERGE. Get your hand poised to whip of the woolly hat.

Felix astonished by the cat's dare devil attitude to inch wide balancing over a gushing stream. Will he make it???? He saunters off looking back over his shoulder at us,
I can do this with my eyes closed man, he would drawl if he could talk. He is The Dude. The cat. Not Felix. Felix is certainly not as chilled as The Dude. Or as prone to hallucinating thankfully, but perhaps as silly in his own Felix-mad way :)

The veg plot is devoid of veg, and growth and life. This is the
contrast shot. The best is yet to come- lets get digging in the manure!! (I yell at my dh, General style, or anyone who looks like they might be lively with a pitch fork). The sand pit over there gets a heck of a lot more digging than our beds ever will. Lets just say the no-dig method happens here without us having known it was a method.

Inside we had a spurt of baking (Isaac with the required snake around the neck).

And flag making for sandcastle days in the oh distant future of summer: we are ready for you! Our flags are made! Dare defy us by not arriving!

Isaac and Esmé get friendly choosing the best vintage from the wine rack for Supper. Oh yes. If only our evenings were so civilised. I store cling film and baking parchment in the wine rack and constantly curse at it's presence in my kitchen for wasting space when it could have been a wanted and needed cupboard. Still it looks like they are discussing the merits of Old World wines vs. New doesn't it.....

Felix makes little men from corn starch packaging.

And erects scenes with playmobil men. He makes sooooo many. It's like another world. I want to live there! The vikings get jiggy with the ambulance guys and they battle out their differences in the gladiatorial arena before sitting down to lunch in the pirate cafe. Baby and dog play areas included.


Our daily walks follow the same path but everything changes. It is so amazing. So. Amazing. It makes me feel that living a SLOW life our time is a time that passes differently to anyone on even a haphazardly lazy schedule. Most days, we don't know what day of the week it is. Or what time of day. We see the seasons and we eat when we are hungry. We conform when visitors arrive but it's so deliciously easy to slip back into our own dreamy day.

When I watch the boys sometimes, they look dream-like. They run their hands over different plants as we walk along. Sometimes I tell stories and the landscape is forgotten, sometimes we are quiet. Sometimes, like today, the sun comes out and we all stop and lift our faces and stand still in the quiet.
Lets see what we can hear Felix whispers. And we do. Usually it's Esmé, but it's other things too. I think a teacher would use these walks to Instruct. To point out, to label, to press and pass on Knowledge. I have learned slowly not to. There is not a bigger turn off than someone trying to Tell You Things. When I get excited I talk, like today I was overjoyed to see wild garlic and picked some juicy leaves for our soup and rabbited on in rapture about the lovely scent. Felix was struck by the dead badger we saw and spent the walk discussing whether or not Mrs badger and the Baby Badgers would be ok without Mr Badger (I didn't know but hoped so).

But I don't Teach. That is the biggest thing most other adults cannot get their heads around. That I don't teach my children. I am not trying to make a school at home. That does not interest me, it isn't even necessary! If I am asked I will gladly explain something (assuming I know - but I am just as glad when I don't because then I get to find somethng out) and I like to
do lots of things every day and helpers are welcome. I am Busy. I used to feel irritated that my Grandmother and Mother always Liked being busy. My teenage self thought they were Mad (why when one could stretch out and read?). But now I see how hard it can be to be Still. So I am trying to find the balance. I think my children learn (I think all children - and adults - learn) All Of The Time. They learn things you don't expect or imagine, like how people cope when stressed, they learn about exchanges (in banks, post offices, with friends...) they learn just about everything from being IN life (from using money to time telling to planet names, to picking berries to make jam.... conversation springs from EVERYTHING).

I can see it happening. Some things I think are slower to emerge than would be forced in School. Like academics. Obviously. Reading and writing tend to be purposeful rather than done for themselves without an end. So less often 'practiced'. I don't see this form of 'education' as being negligent, ha! Rather that we get to live and choose out persuits and that the learning springs from interest. Only true learning and retaining of knowledge happens when you are engaged and
wanting to know something, that is what works for me. The wanting, needing, desiring to learn fell by the wayside for me a LONG time ago and it was years later (
years!) when I could finally breathe in and out in my own time and feel excited about life again. Under tuition, instruction, it just made a bit of me die.





Ordinary days are full of wonder. Things. Freedom. Play. Food. Trees. Water. Lemon Sorbet. Add your own words. There will be many. But for most - they just see
An Ordinary Day. And they are: ordinary days. Extra-ordinary. Each one.

But it was just another ordinary day.
Wonderful in it's myriad of tiny ways.
I am glad to be alive.
In this Season.
Of our Lives.
(Isn't that last line the title of a cheesy US soap opera??)