Sunday, March 29, 2009

The Builder

.... is he.





And today he turned EIGHT. Eight years ago, I was 21 and my little boy was a squishy beautiful ball of flesh in my arms.



He wants to be a builder (on the days he does not want to be a circus boy, or Spy, or pizza chef...) and fell in love with this kit a while ago, so of course, for the boy that never asks for a thing, it was the perfect gift. It really was! All day from pre-birthday breakfast to the chill of sundown he has been inside and outside building up the first house. Although modified to suit himself. Like all good builders. Especially ones who are eight and can see in their mind's-eye a better way to do things :)









There are always better ways to do EVERYTHING for Isaac. Quicker ways, faster ways, meandering ways, longer ways, backward ways, secret ways..... but chiefly, His Own Way. He has a very sure sense of his self. He tells me that if his body tells him not to do something, he will not. Can not. Like eat mushrooms, or slide down the Death Slide, or go for a walk when his Beano book calls, or zip down a zip wire, or wear anything other than PJ's until lunch time.... He tells me there is no point in my trying to convince him of another way because he is sure his way is right for him. How did it only take him eight years to know himself so well?







Keep on your own path sweet boy. Happy Birthday Isaac!



The building kit was bought from Hawkins, and also is available from Holz Toys. My dh bought it one lunch time last week and a work friend saw it and thought it was the best thing ever, I wish you were my dad! he said to my dh. :lol We ALL had many turns with it today, it is highly addictive. The cool thing is you submerge the bricks in water and the 'cement' melts away so you can build everything up again. A Boy Toy if ever there was one.

3 comments:

Natalie said...

Happy Birthday for yesterday Isaac!

I have pondered over those building kits many a time and then bought something else. I'm kicking myself now as I really think Em would have loved one when she was a bit younger. She has moved into teenagedom already I fear, so does not "play" with anything any more.

It is amazing that Isaac has a strong sense of self already isn't it. So many of us are still struggling in our thirties!

Love to all,
Natalie
X

Julie said...

Happy Birthday Isaac!!!!!! What a totally COOL gift, I love the fact that you can re-use the blocks, BRILLIANT! Isaac sounds like such a lovely boy and with such wonderful qualities so early on, you can be very sure that he will turn out to be an AMAZING man.... I know an 8 year old over here who would love to hang out with him and spend all day building and of course DEFINITELY no eating of mushrooms!! XXXXX

sue said...

Belated happy birthday to Isacc :)
xx